When Butler died last December, I was devastated -- but, even though the time was short between his cancer diagnosis and his death, there was, at least, a window of time to prepare ourselves for the inevitable.
Today, there was no time at all.
Darcy, our lovable black pug, is dead.
He was basically mauled by a chihuahua-mix -- she'd been after him before -- it was like the school bully going after the weakest student -- but never like this. In the space of me being out of the house for no more than 15 minutes, he was attacked (most likely by Reese and the Boston/Pug mix, Liesl -- who tended to follow Reese blindly -- a perfect example of mob mentality -- so we'll have to watch her for continued bad behavior) and never recovered. My youngest daughter and I raced him to the vet, both of us covered in blood, but, though they tried -- and, in fact, thought he was doing better -- we lost him. He did not die of his injuries but of shock and respiratory arrest. I have absolutely no idea why this happened today -- or why it happened at all. I've left them hundreds of times. Hundreds.
It was not the kind of day I expected -- but who would? It just shows us how we never know what our day will hold.
Last Saturday, we brought home a new dog. We knew we were crazy but we were thinking about losing Spencer and thought bringing a young Boston into the house would help ease that transition, whenever it comes. I never thought it would be to help us with the loss of Darcy.
Darcy was a "dog of divorce" -- we took him in after Mark's brother needed help with his animals, after his wife walked out. We only had him for two years but it seems like much longer. I feel like I let him down -- so I'll have to work on the guilt as well as the grief.
The irony is that Reese is my eldest daughter's dog -- we've had her for over a year and, probably next week, she was going to finally get to go to her "real" home.
One more week and this wouldn't have happened. But I can't hate her. I just can't. She's gone now -- Shannon came and got her today. So, for all practical purposes, I've lost two dogs today, not just one. I knew Reese would leave me eventually but I didn't expect it to be under these circumstances.
But I can't live in what ifs.
I just have to go with what is.
But, right now, what is sucks.
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When you are offended at any man's fault, turn to yourself and study your own failings. Then you will forget your anger...Epictetus